APPENDIX:
Questions, Quizzes, Activities and Skits!

1. Pre-Marriage and Newlywed     530
         Couple's lifeline shared experience      530
         Auction game     530
         Identifying strengths and needs  531
         Time management suggestion       531
         Communicating about sexuality    532
         Marriage prospects: Discussion topics    532
         The newlywed's questionnaire--wife/husband       533
         Marital situation inventory      534
         Partners, problems and progress  538
         Elements of successful marriages: Discussion topics      539
2. General Attitudes, Roles, Back-grounds        539
         Rate your mate quiz      539
         Questions a husband should talk about with his wife      539
         Rating your partnership  540
         Marriage discussion topics       541
         Meditating on your marriage      541
         Personal reflections for wives   542
         Personal reflections for husbands        543
         Rate your mental ruts: Marriage "mind-set"       543
         Role expectations        544
         Rate your role in marriage       544
         Defining your value system       545
         Character and honesty    546
         Being committed  546
         Setting goals    546
3. Communication and Understanding       547
         Opening the lines of communication       547
         Communication and listening questions and quizzes        547
         Relationship skills: A self-check        549
         Discussion questions for better communication    549
         Communications test      550
         Telling the truth about you      550
         Dialogue skills  551
         Communicate your feelings        551
         Listening skills         552
         Understanding    552
         Failure and forgiveness  553
         Decision making  553
4. Sex   553
         Sex discussion   553
         Finding sexual fulfillment       553
5. Resolving Conflict    554
         Day-to-day issues        554
         Resolving conflict       555
         Watch your words         556
         Be angry and sin not     556
6. Change/growth/attitudes       557
         Rate-yourself quiz       557
         Changing your outlook    557
         Cleaning your windows quiz       557
         Motivation       558
         Habits   558
         The feminine checklist of manners        559
         Remodelling your mate?   559
         Health topics    559
         Spiritual beliefs        559
         Spiritual growth         560
7. Children and Family Life      560
         Children         560
         Questions husbands should ask their wives about their children   560
         Family policies  560
         Recreation and leisure   561
8. Money Matters         561
         Money and possessions    561
         Questions husbands should ask their wives about money    561
9. Marriage Building Assignments         562
10. Skit Ideas for Creative Counseling   569